Top Ten Cities

First off, my apologies to Ed. I thought I had the right eHow article (the one he wrote on couch surfing tips), but I was wrong. Thankfully, he corrected me in the comments section, which also verifies that at least one person is still reading this.

Anyway, in case you didn't read his comment, here is the link to Ed's tips on eHow, and they are much better.

Now for the top ten cities to couch surf. Before I start, I have to credit couchsurfing.com for these stats. Although I wish this was my own personal top ten, neither time nor money has afforded me that opportunity. These are simply the cities that have been couch surfed the most.

1. Paris, France (10,603): This is the one city overseas that I have actually been to. It's a fantastic city, especially for young people. It is expensive mostly because the U.S. dollar is worthless, and I lived off of baguettes and cheese for the last week. Needless to say, it's no surprise to me that over 10,000 surfers have stayed here.

2. London, England (9,013): The dollar is even worse in England, since they are still using the pound.

3. Montreal, Quebec (8,383): Been here too. I had just turned 18 and Montreal was literally a haven for every vice that goes along with being 18 and male. Fond memories for sure.

4. Berlin, Germany (6,746): I've heard great things about this city although I've never been there. I do, however, find the German accent a bit unappealing, in case anyone cared.

5. Vienna, Austria (5,016): It's also one of the top three cities in the world for quality of life.

6. New York, New York (4,310): Oddly enough the dollar sucks here too. Case in point: $8 beers.

7. Istanbul, Turkey (4,119): Makes me think of one of myfavorite songs.

8. San Francisco, California (4,037): Haven't been there, but I'm not sure I know anybody who doesn't like San Fran. But maybe that's just me.

9. Melbourne, Australia (3,923): If I had an Australian accent, women would flock to me. Unfortunately I don't, and my boyish good looks don't seem to be doing the trick.

10. Toronto, Ontario (3,676): I went on a weekend road trip to Toronto once. For me, it was a bigger cleaner Montreal, except I was two years older and still had the same vices. People were very friendly though, so I can see why it's popular.

If you want to see a complete list of cities click here.

- Evan

Tips on Couch Surfing

OK, so perhaps some of you don't think this is such a crazy idea and actually want to try it. Though I'm still relatively new to the whole experience, here are some tips I would give to a virgin couch surfer.

1. Do some prep work.
I sent out close to 20-25 messages/emails to different people on couchsurfing.com and I didn't get that many responses. Honestly, I thought it would be a lot easier. Now, keep in mind I had limited time to prepare (I started messaging people roughly 4 days before my departure date). If I could do it again, I'd get things ironed out sooner. This is also a good time to browse through profiles and find someone you think you might get along with based on their interests. Not everybody checks their email 50 times a day like I do, so leave some room for response. I probably got half a dozen emails after I returned saying "sorry I missed you, maybe next time."

2. Create a friendly profile.
This was sort of a challenge for me. I'm relatively inept at creating profiles since I don't have a Facebook or Myspace (I'll pause while everyone gasps in amazement). However, there are a lot of options on the website to describe yourself, the places you've been, the things you like, etc., etc. Be yourself, but make your profile welcoming so people aren't scared off or weirded out. I suppose this seems pretty obvious, but doing things like uploading pictures of yourself, or writing a brief description allows a potential host to get to know you at least a little. I'd say the picture is the most important, because people feel more comfortable looking at someone's face. Without a picture, you just seem sketchy.

3. Resist the urge to arm yourself.
When I was getting ready for my trip a lot of people asked things like, "Are you going to bring a knife or something?" My mom strongly suggested pepper spray. Don't do this. You don't want to be that person. If you go into the situation with an attitude like that, you're going make things sketchy from the start. Put yourself in their position. If you were hosting, would you want a couch surfer bringing weapons into your home? I didn't think so. Plus, watch how awkward the situation gets when that pocket knife falls out of your bag.
*Note: Obviously this is coming from a 23-year-old guy. Females may feel a bit more concerned for their safety, although as far as I know there haven't been any incidents. I know many women who carry pepper spray in their purse all the time, and I don't see that as a problem. I'm just saying I wouldn't arm myself to the teeth or anything.

4. Keep an open mind.
Resist the thought that every person on couchsurfing.com is secretly planning to make you into a lampshade. From what I can tell in my brief experience, these are harmless people who joined couch surfing because they a) love to travel for cheap or b) love meeting new people. There is not doubt it will be awkward/different staying in a complete stranger's house. It may even be uncomfortable at times. But keeping an open mind to people's ways of life will make for a better, less stressful, experience.

5. Treat your host to something.
I had some difficulty with the whole idea of bringing a gift. Some people suggest a 6-pack or a bottle of wine when you arrive at the house, but I was often unsure what my host would like. This was the internal debate I had before I went to Laura's. Like most couch surfers, I'm not exactly rolling in cash, so I'd rather not waste my money on something my host might not like. If you know that your host loves a nice merlot, than you are probably safe, otherwise, there are usually opportunities to thank your guest during your stay. For example, I bought Ed some beers at the bar and then sprung for the late-night Chinese. If you are really hard-up on cash, you can also do little things like washing dishes after dinner or even cooking a meal.

6. Have a back-up plan.
This is a classic situation where you need to prepare for the unexpected. Shit happens. People run into problems or unforeseen obligations all the time. Other people might just flake out. It's best to know you have another place to stay so you don't end up stranded on a street corner. Get phone numbers of other hosts and be sure they are available so you have people to call if you're in a jam.

7. Try to relax.
There's no doubt this is a nerve-wracking experience. You'll be in a place you probably don't know very well, if at all, with people you don't know, whom you are placing a tremendous amount of trust in. I definitely had the sweats leading up to my first night, but the moment I calmed down, the more fun I started having. So take a deep breath and have fun with it.

8. Come with conversation starters.
I've been doing this for years simply because I hate awkward silence. It was easy for me because I was in reporter mode and constantly thinking of questions, but even if you are going for fun, it's a good idea to make a list of questions in your head that might spark some good conversation. Luckily you can do all your research online on your host's profile. Get to know them a little bit and ask them about their travels (most have gone all over the world), their favorite parts of the city, and just their general interests. If your host sees you are interested in them, they will also relax and conversation will come naturally.

For more tips, here are some good websites:
couchsurfing.com
eHow
AnswerBag

It's been requested that I post the top cities to couch surf. Look for that tomorrow.

- Evan